Comments on: Breaking Up Part Three - Decisiveness

By: CAndi SIMMONS

CAndi SIMMONS — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 03:21:17 +0000

Will someone please tell Paul Wilson that though he can sky dive he can’t understand women no matter how hard he tries. I mean really if ten guys voted if they wanted a smooth clear cut or a long slow process when it comes to breaking up, what are most going to choose. He probably just thought there was still hope. False hope given on anyone’s part is well, wrong-right? I was talking to my friend the other day-she married when she was 34 but if you look at her you would guess that she probably had chances from ten on up, she is beautiful. I didn’t ever see her playing around with guys emotions, she was real and when she was ready to get married. She met a guy while watching Monday Night Football with friends and asked him out the next week to a Chicago Bulls/ Jazz game. Now twelve years later and two kids that are currently playing on their high school’s basketball team, she is living a life that she probably dreamed of, but didn’t get by running out and trying to coarse every guy into her. She was real and did things, until she found a guy that was cool enough for her- and he turned out to be a returned missionary and serves almost flawlessly as Elders Quorum President while this beautiful woman serves in the Young Woman. So there it is. It’s not all about telling stories that makes your story great in the end. It is about biding your time, being patient and having a little Hope!

By: CAndi SIMMONS

CAndi SIMMONS — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 03:05:31 +0000

Why is the time stamp on this way off?

By: CAndi SIMMONS

CAndi SIMMONS — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 03:03:12 +0000

The compassionate break-up sounds so great, but really is that possible? Someone WILL always be hurt and if your decisive about being decisive to let the other part still “talk email and pretty much carry on the relationship” aren’t you doing exactly what you DECIDED not to do-end the relationship? I guess I don’t really get this. I am not your average dating-drama girl but sounds like the girl is just not severing ties that probably ought to be. It sounds like her decision to be decisive and let him still try to get closure like a child trying to be wanned of a bottle. If he decides he needs to keep all communication lines open isn’t that making the situation worse? If I were trying to get rid of a guy I woudn’t encourage him to keep torturing himself. If he needs a little closure sure great, give it but in the long run the longer you wane THE HARDER it is. It just seems like the more honest and upfront you are at first the easier it is in the end. And as what every good mother wants for her son HOPEFULLY this guy will be able to grow up and be MAN about the situation. If you want to read more about why guys don’t succeed in dating, and the girls that help sabotage any hope they had at other relationships, see my post getdumpedhappilyguys online or hear me on satellite radio, at whyisaguylisteningtothisstationandnotthelocalsportsshow.
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